quitting drugs took a lot of work but I did it and it felt relatively easy, but I've been trying to quit porn for a long time now and it feels impossible. should I just give up? I feel like giving up but I also feel like a loser. what do y'all think do you think my self hatred for porn consumption is irrational
By Anonymous | Updated 05/29/26(Fri)19:57:48
quitting drugs took a lot of work but I did it and it felt relatively easy, but I've been trying to quit porn for a long time now and it feels impossible. should I just give up? I feel like giving up but I also feel like a loser. what do y'all think do you think my self hatred for porn consumption is irrational
>do you think my self hatred for porn consumption is irrational
The fact that you're even asking this shows that you think about it a lot. So maybe? Obsessing about it isn't going to help. Like the Kemomimi-chan poster who obsesses about dieting but ends up binge eating and gaining weight.
If you really want to completely give up porn you need to stop thinking about it so much, and to do that you probably need to spend less time on sites like 4chan and the internet in general.
But that's just my honest, autistic and incredibly cringe opinion. >>12977638
what drugs did you quit >>12977638
don't hate yourself and don't give up. just keep working on limiting porn as much as you can >>12977638
How often do u watch it
I do like twice a month >>12977650
>But that's just my honest, autistic and incredibly cringe opinion.
I get that disclaimer when I see your name dw. but it wasn't a bad reponse, I've tried to ween off the internet and stuff bcs I know it doesn't help and I have an unhealthy relationship with over using the internet on it's own but that seems even harder. I been on the internet since I was like 12. It's hard to not think about it, I just impulsively do it and then have immense guilty feeling afterwards that doesn't go away
>>12977652
weed, xanax, huffed enamel and abused pain killers. decided to stop when my lungs and liver started hurting
>>12977662
thank you friend
>>12977668
once every other day >>12977687
wowe thats so impressive you can shake those drugs off but if u cant shake off porn remeber, are all things not possible through God? Just use your imagination to fab bepis >>12977687
Instead of trying to stop cold turkey I think you need to ask yourself why it's something you *need* to do. Because you may be using porn to satisfy an actual need, and until you find a healthier alternative, you're just going to keep going back to it no matter how hard you try to stop. If you've built your entire mental ecosystem, so to speak, around the consumption of porn since you were 12, it only makes sense that it's something you've come up rely upon. It's not about cutting that out from your life, it's about replacing it with something better. >>12977687
Why does it make you feel guilty?
>>12977693
I used to think it was and it motivated me so I prayed on it but my resolve was still not strong enough, and it just makes me feel even more guilty, like I was failing him on top of everything else
>>12977698
sounds like you're saying "get a girlfriend" which feels even more impossible than quitting this, I'm not sure what else would replace. I hadn't had sex since I was in a highschool relationship and that's really the only time I remember not feeling like needing it, sorry if misunderstand
>>12977701
it makes me feel like I have no control over my impulses, you know it makes you feel like shit when you try to do a change and fail every time. it makes you feel like a loser. and it's so frequent and indulgent it just feels out of control, and just for what? to objectify women and get your rocks off for the 4th time this week? it feels awful and sinful. makes me feel like life failure >>12977722
if its not true then God is a liar because the bible expliciity says that all things are possible through God though >>12977726
what if I'm not not committing myself to him enough, it seems more likely that I am the problem. I don't think God just magically fixes your problems at request I think it takes like hard effort and motivation this seems like a spicy thread is contribute if I wasn't high as shit
>>12977726
Christ gives us the blueprint it's up to us to make sense of it
>>12977732
He doesn't. People mistake Christ and our savior and though He is, the reality is he gave us the autonomy to save ourselves
Your fortune: Average Luck >>12977638
Well first you need to get it through your head that "porn addiction" isn't a real thing, it's just you being ashamed of having a libido. If you want to snuff out your sexual desires, you can always look into drugs that will kill your libido.
Your fortune: （ ´_ゝ`）ﾌｰﾝ people would admonish me for taking the Lord's work and running with it but fuck them they're the same people who think music is the devil yet essentially stunting and retarding a youths intellect is "ok"
Your fortune: ｷﾀ━━━━━━(ﾟ∀ﾟ)━━━━━━ !!!! >>12977744
I guess I should keep trying, I do have faith and it's helped me through worse things. damn this shit is hard and demoralizing though, at least drugs were fun. jacking off feels good for like 10 seconds then it's depressing. I appreciate your truth, I just have to try harder, it's just so frustrating because I feel like I should be able to do anything I will and want but struggle with this. It's humiliating, I'm not gonna let it win. thanks guiys >>12977744
these seem like dubs >>12977722
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Your fortune: Reply hazy, try again
>>12977722
>it makes me feel like I have no control over my impulses, you know it makes you feel like shit when you try to do a change and fail every time. it makes you feel like a loser. and it's so frequent and indulgent it just feels out of control
this is what I say every time I try to give up shitting, but I just keep going back to that sweet sweet porcelain throne...
>and just for what? to objectify women
so it's fine when women or gay men watch porn and "objectify men?" are you going to stop watching shows and movies because it reduces women to comedy objects or drama objects, too? there's nothing wrong with "objectifying" a woman who has (consensually and ethically) objectified herself by being in pornography; the only problem is if you start applying this to all women in all contexts because you can't understand the difference between fiction and reality. Why would someone take niggerdrugs in the first plays? >>12978277
niggerdubs
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black dubs
Your fortune: Outlook good
You can only quit something if you replace it with something else. If you dont replace porn with something productive you'll most likely go back to drugs
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